YOU ONLY MATTER

 Start asking people "How they are making me feel?". Not always, are they comfortable, are they alright, do they need something, How can I make them more comfortable. Enough, we did more than enough and it's not coming back to us. And before any of you say, love always comes back to you. What you give always finds its way back to you in many ways. When, where, how ???.

I can't see it. I can't feel it. So sit back and watch the people around you. Ask yourself how these people are making me feel. Or how this particular person is making me feel. Is it anxious, nervous, happy, sad, or bored. Anyone not making you feel good or seen or make you feel like you are nothing, doesn't deserve to be in your life.  Your feelings are equally important and they matter more. You come before anyone else.

So the next time you think someone is not making you feel good, walk away. Not because you don't love them, or not because you don't respect them, it's about how small they made you feel. Sometimes(maybe all the time) you come before every one and everything. Chin up,  take the space. Anything, anyone making you feel small, or not valued doesn't deserve your time or feelings. Value yourself first the rest can come later.