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YOU ONLY MATTER

 Start asking people " How they are making me feel?" . Not always, are they comfortable, are they alright, do they need something, How can I make them more comfortable. Enough, we did more than enough and it's not coming back to us. And before any of you say, love always comes back to you. What you give always finds its way back to you in many ways. When, where, how ???. I can't see it. I can't feel it. So sit back and watch the people around you. Ask yourself how these people are making me feel. Or how this particular person is making me feel. Is it anxious, nervous, happy, sad, or bored. Anyone not making you feel good or seen or make you feel like you are nothing, doesn't deserve to be in your life.  Your feelings are equally important and they matter more. You come before anyone else. So the next time you think someone is not making you feel good, walk away. Not because you don't love them, or not because you don't respect them, it's about how ...
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Happy Father's Day

 Hello People, The world is celebrating Father's Day today. And everywhere I see today, I hear only about this. Now that I think about it back in my childhood we were not aware of these and we did not celebrate any of these days. And we are fine. Now I don't have any problem having these days, but let's just say not everyone has to have good opinions/memories on these.  Everyone says, your Dad is your first Hero and the child follows the father. True, but that's not for everyone right ? Some homes has seen first hand trauma because of an irresponsible father. I'm a person who believes that a parent's role is very crucial in a child growth especially Father's, not just important, crucial. I mean the parents may know the child for half their life, they have a life before the kids. But to the children the parents are everything. They know you, they carry you for their whole life. And when you fight, it's not just husband and wife fighting, it's the mom ...
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